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15 Tips to Help You Handle Addiction Triggers

Statistics indicate that 40–60 percent of people will experience some form of relapse in recovery. That’s because just like other forms of chronic disease—such as diabetes or heart complications—finding the right approach to effective health management takes time. However, if you’re choosing sobriety, you have another factor to consider: triggers. These are powerful mental, emotional, or environmental reminders that can ignite cravings and threaten recovery. Understanding what triggers are, why they matter, and how to respond to them is one of the most important steps in building long-term wellness.

 

What Are Types of Triggers?

In the context of substance and alcohol use disorder, a trigger is any cue that renews thoughts, feelings, or sensations associated with past substance use, increasing the urge to use again. These cues can be:

  • External, such as places, people, or objects linked to past use
  • Internal, including emotions, physical feelings, or memories that your brain has learned to associate with substance use over time. 

When exposed to these prompts, strong cravings or urges can arise spontaneously, even years into recovery. Relapse prevention research also emphasizes that returning to use isn’t usually caused by a sudden event, but rather a process that begins with psychological responses to triggers—such as thoughts, stress, and early cues—long before relapse happens. So recognizing these early warning signs is critical to your continued good health.

 

15 Examples of Common Triggers and Tips for How to Handle Them

Triggers don’t follow a single pattern, and they rarely announce themselves in obvious ways. They can arise from everyday routines, social situations, emotional shifts, or physical states that once played a role in substance use. What makes them even more challenging isn’t just their variety, but also how quickly they can unconsciously influence thoughts and behavior. 

Here are some circumstances you might encounter and practice response strategies designed to interrupt automatic reactions, reinforce self-awareness, and support healthier choices in real time.

  1. Stress at Work
    Intense pressure, deadlines, or conflict.
    Tip: Use breathing exercises, take a brief walk, or reach out to a recovery friend before reacting. Turn stress into connection rather than escape.
  2. Seeing a Bar or Liquor Store
    Drive past old drinking spots or see bars downtown.
    Tip: Change your route, plug in your favorite podcast, or stop at a coffee shop instead—replace the cue with a healthy micro-goal.
  3. Old Friends Who Still Use
    Being around people tied to past substance use.
    Tip: Set boundaries. It’s okay to decline invites or suggest sober activities, such as hiking or attending a meeting together.
  4. Smells Associated With Use
    These include cigarette smoke, alcohol, or drug residue.
    Tip: Ground yourself in the present moment. Name five things you can see, hear, or touch, and remind yourself why you chose recovery.
  5. Negative Emotions
    Internal emotional states such as sadness, anxiety, or anger.
    Tip: Use mindfulness, therapeutic techniques, or talk to your sponsor/therapist rather than trying to numb the feeling.
  6. Celebratory Events
    Parties, birthdays, and graduations where alcohol is present.
    Tip: Plan ahead. Bring a non-alcoholic drink, stay with a trusted friend, and have an exit plan if you start to feel uneasy.
  7. Loneliness or Isolation
    Too much unstructured alone time.
    Tip: Connect with support groups, schedule social events, or volunteer. Connection builds resilience.
  8. Financial Worries
    Stress about bills or debt.
    Tip: Break problems into small tasks, reach out to a financial counselor, and share your worries with trusted people. Burden sharing helps.
  9. Holiday Gatherings
    Family dinners or traditions centered on drinking.
    Tip: Arrive with a buddy, have a set time limit, and remember that your presence matters.
  10. Pain or Physical Discomfort
    Especially when struggling with fatigue, chronic pain, or an injury.
    Tip: Talk to your healthcare provider about safe pain management. Avoiding self-medicating is a victory in itself.
  11. Seeing Others Use
    People drinking or using substances casually on TV or social media.
    Tip: Skip those scenes, unfollow triggering accounts, and prioritize media that supports your journey.
  12. Memories of Past Use
    Flashbacks or recalling pleasurable moments associated with drugs or alcohol.
    Tip: Accept the memory without judgment and gently redirect to a recovery affirmation, such as “I choose health today”.
  13. Boredom
    Nothing to do in extended free time.
    Tip: Pick up a new hobby, start a creative project, or learn a skill. Building joy replaces old habits.
  14. Relationship Conflict
    This might include arguments or tough conversations.
    Tip: Use healthy communication tools, take breaks when emotions flare, and seek counseling rather than retreating into old behaviors.
  15. Feeling Hungry, Angry, Lonely, or Tired
    Also known as H.A.L.T., these physical and emotional states are often overlooked.
    Tip: Check in with yourself: eat, rest, and reach out. Meeting basic needs reduces trigger intensity.

 

Find More Resources at Sobriety Centers of New Hampshire

Triggers aren’t signs of weakness. They’re signals from your body and brain reminding you of something you’ve learned to associate with substance use. Each time you respond healthily, you strengthen new neural pathways and develop confidence in your ability to cope. 

We can help. The Sobriety Centers of New Hampshire specialize in high-quality, evidence-based treatment and continuing care that inspires healing and profound insight. We have three locations to serve you: 

This is how long-term recovery builds: not by avoiding life’s challenges, but by learning to meet them with courage, community, and care.